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Jan. 5, 2025

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Lenience

Is XXX just a language learning site? Of course, some people think so, while others think it’s a communication site. Some simply ask native speakers questions about grammar and vocabulary, and so on. Some ask further questions and discuss some themes. Either way, the common attitude is to be willing to help each other and be friendly, which is the ideal of a social network system(SNS).

However, last year, I encountered some discussions on the site that left me feeling a bit hopeless and disgusted. They all arose from differences of opinion and evoked bad feelings among the participants. Some of them were abusive. Why are people unwilling to listen calmly to opposing opinions? Why do people insist their owns and refuse to compromise? Why don't they respect the opponent and admit their difference without getting angry? Why do people become emotional when they are opposed? That’s because everyone is human and flawed.

In other words, everyone typically prefers harmony and dislikes conflict . Namely, almost all users believe that SNS should be friendly sites. That's why blocking systems are available on SNS. People tend to block unfriendly people easily as if it were natural for everyone. Since I am not young and not familiar wth SNS, I was first shocked to find out someone had blocked me, but I got used to it. I also would block others who disturb me.

However, ideally, everyone should listen to each other and talk about things despite their differences. Are those who disagree with you unfriendly? I don't think so. In addition, since we cannot know the whole truth about another person on SNS, our relationships feel total fake. With that in mind, we should be more lenient of others. At the very least, the more blocks there are, the narrower our field of visions becomes.


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XXX は単なる語学学習サイトなのでしょうか? もちろん、そう考える人もいますが、コミュニケーションサイトだと考える人もいます。ネイティブに文法や語彙などを質問するだけの人もいますし、さらに質問したり、テーマについて話し合ったりする人もいます。いずれにしても、共通の姿勢は、お互いに助け合い、友好的であることであり、それがソーシャルネットワークシステム (SNS) の理想です。

しかし、昨年、このサイトで、少し絶望感と嫌悪感を覚えるような議論に遭遇しました。それらはすべて意見の相違から生じたもので、参加者の間で険悪な感情を呼び起こしました。中には暴言のようなものもありました。なぜ人々は反対意見を冷静に聞こうとしないのでしょうか? なぜ人々は自分の意見を主張し、妥協を拒否するのでしょうか? なぜ相手を尊重し、怒らずに違いを認めないのでしょうか? なぜ人々は反対されると感情的になるのでしょうか? それは、誰もが人間であり、欠点があるからです。

言い換えれば、誰もが同調を好み、対立を嫌います。つまり、SNS は友好的なサイトであるべきだとユーザーが信じているからです。だからSNSにはブロック機能がある。嫌いな人は誰でも当たり前のように簡単にブロックする。私は若くないしSNSに慣れていないから、最初はブロックされたと知ってショックを受けましたが、もう慣れました。私も邪魔な人はブロックするでしょう。

でも理想を言えば、みんながお互いに耳を傾け、違いはあっても話し合うべきです。あなたに同意しない人は非好意的ということですか?違うと思います。また、SNSでは相手の真の姿がわからないのだから、関係は所詮偽りのものです。そう考えると、他人に対してもっと大目に見る方がいいのではないでしょうか。少なくとも、ブロックする数が増えれば増えるほど視野が狭くなるのですから。

Corrections

Lenience

Or "Courtesy"

Is XXX just a language learning site?

Of course, some people think so, while others think it’s a communication site.

Some simply ask native speakers questions about grammar and vocabulary, and so on.

Some ask further questions and discuss some themes.

The modifiers feel a bit awkward in this sentence.

Either way, the common attitude is to be willing to help each other and be friendly, which is the ideal of a social network system (SNS).

However, last year, I encountered some discussions on the site that left me feeling a bit hopeless and disgusted.

They all arose from differences of opinion and evoked bad feelings among the participants.

Some of them were abusive.

Why are people unwilling to listen calmly to opposing opinions?

Why do people insist their owns opinion is correct and refuse to compromise?

Why don't they respect othe opponentrs and admit their difference s without getting angry?

"Opponent" sounds like people are in opposition (against each other, and there must be a winner and a loser), which is contrary to the points you are making.

Why do people become emotional when they are opposed?

That’s because everyone is human and flawed.

In other words, everyone typically prefers harmony and dislikes conflict .

Namely, almost all users believe that SNS sites should be friendly sites.

That's why blocking systems are available on SNS.

People tend to block unfriendly people easily as if it were's a natural for everyactione.

Since I am not young and not familiar wth SNS, I was first shocked to find out someone had blocked me, but I got used to it.

I also would block others who disturb me.

However, ideally, everyone should listen to each other and talk about things despite their differences.

Are those who disagree with you unfriendly?

I don't think so.

In addition, since we cannot know the whole truth about another person on SNS, our relationships feel totally fake.

With that in mind, we should be more lenient of others.

Or "considerate"

At the very least, the more blocks there arepeople we block, the narrower our field of visions becomes.

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The media bubble effect is real and a genuine concern of internet consumption.

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ronpei

Jan. 6, 2025

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santiagoさん、添削とコメント、ありがとうございました。私も、実際にSNS が現実の人間関係に及ぼす影響は大きいと感じます。

Is XXX just a language learning site?


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Of course, some people think so, while others think it’s a communication site.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Some simply ask native speakers questions about grammar and vocabulary, and so on.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Some ask further questions and discuss some themes.


Some ask further questions and discuss some themes.

The modifiers feel a bit awkward in this sentence.

Either way, the common attitude is to be willing to help each other and be friendly, which is the ideal of a social network system(SNS).


Either way, the common attitude is to be willing to help each other and be friendly, which is the ideal of a social network system (SNS).

However, last year, I encountered some discussions on the site that left me feeling a bit hopeless and disgusted.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

They all arose from differences of opinion and evoked bad feelings among the participants.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Some of them were abusive.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Why are people unwilling to listen calmly to opposing opinions?


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Why do people insist their owns and refuse to compromise?


Why do people insist their owns opinion is correct and refuse to compromise?

Why don't they respect the opponent and admit their difference without getting angry?


Why don't they respect othe opponentrs and admit their difference s without getting angry?

"Opponent" sounds like people are in opposition (against each other, and there must be a winner and a loser), which is contrary to the points you are making.

Why do people become emotional when they are opposed?


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

That’s because everyone is human and flawed.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

In other words, everyone likes to be homogenized.


That's why blocking systems are available on SNS.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Since I am not young and not familiar wth SNS, I was first shocked to find out someone had blocked me, but I got used to it.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

I also would block others who disturb me.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

However, ideally, everyone should listen to each other and talk about things despite their differences.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Since we cannot know the whole truth about another person on SNS, our relationships feel total fake.


At the very least, the more blocks there are, the narrower our field of visions becomes.


At the very least, the more blocks there arepeople we block, the narrower our field of visions becomes.

Lenience


Lenience

Or "Courtesy"

In other words, everyone typically prefers harmony and dislikes conflict .


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

Namely, almost all users believe that SNS should be friendly sites.


Namely, almost all users believe that SNS sites should be friendly sites.

People tend to block unfriendly people easily as if it were natural for everyone.


People tend to block unfriendly people easily as if it were's a natural for everyactione.

Blocking Systems


Namely, that's because users believe that SNS should be friendly sites.


People tend to block people they dislike easily as if it were natural for everyone.


Are those who disagree with you unfriendly?


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I don't think so.


This sentence has been marked as perfect!

In addition, since we cannot know the whole truth about another person on SNS, our relationships feel total fake.


In addition, since we cannot know the whole truth about another person on SNS, our relationships feel totally fake.

With that in mind, we should be more lenient of others.


With that in mind, we should be more lenient of others.

Or "considerate"

With that in mind, we should be more tolerant of others.


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